Merriam-Webster defines trust as: assured reliance on the character, ability, strength, or truth of someone or something.

Oftentimes, when we fall in love, it can be because we feel that we can fully trust the other person. However, once that trust has been broken and/or taken for granted it can be quite hard to let that wall back down. Here’s a short list of substantial elements used to build trust in a relationship.

Predictability

Now this doesn’t mean leave out the special little surprises of dinner out or a small gift – but be reliable. Your character should be worn “on your sleeve.”

Belief in Your Partner

If s/he is really that stupid would you have fallen in love with this person?

Honesty

Secrets will destroy any stone set to build trust in a relationship every time.

Forthcoming

Don’t be afraid to make your needs and/or wishes known. If you keep your partner guessing, they might not figure it out and then you’ll be frustrated.

Learn to Say No

Try to accommodate your partner’s needs as well, but if some things just can’t be done, say so.

Grow

Do not be afraid of hurts that may or may not occur. Every relationship has its ups and downs and the down times make the up that much sweeter. Just learn from the hurts and/or mistakes and keep getting closer.

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